Thanks for all the encouragement. In the end W texted me to say she didn't need the car but thanks. I wished her a good weekend with her mum. Later I had to send her an email about monies she owed as her contribution to S. That was four days ago and she hasn't replied. This evening I came from a run to see her car going past at the lights. I turned away so I didn't have to stand waving or worse have her stop for a chat. A couple of minutes later she texted asking was I hiding and saying hi.A close friend said to just ignore it and it was childish on her behalf. I haven't responded but just feel weird. The last few days I've found myself grieving more for what was a 25 year relationship and not really holding any hope for any sorted of R with her in the future. I've just been concentrating on work and S.