Hi Pato,
Sounds really hard for you now. After reading this forum for past week, I am starting to feel SO ANGRY that we aren't taught in high school or ? the basics of the most important relationships in our lives - If we knew about the Gottman's therapy ideas and perhaps were given a copy ... thrown in for good measure, maybe none of us would be here!

Sounds particularly challenging for you since you have been together since you were so young.
Do you think the MC you are seeing is a good one? I am terrified of MC unless they are Gottman trained or EFT or YEARS of experience with positive results. Anyone with a degree in counseling can do 'MC' doesn't mean they are good at it!

As someone who lived with a depressed person for years, I know if must be really hard to have anyone understand you.
I'm rambling and not saying anything really helpful.
Let us know how you are?

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