You can really see it now, can't you? You are the rock for the family; for the kids. Be strong, and show your kids what a strong man looks like.
She will see and it will be far too late...
For you this is a new beginning.
So, so, so proud of you. Where you've been and where you are now is worlds apart. I hope you can see it too!
I find it interesting that she didn't apologize to you; she just went in and taped your sheet and picked up the mess she made. I'm sure that was very embarrassing for her... and sad at the same time.
That's something that can make people realize that this person they have so much hate for is not "out to get them" at every turn, or at all, even.
Enjoy your freedom and keep being the person you want to be,