I wish I could have truly wrapped my mind around the following a long time ago.

Not my monkeys not my circus, and I can only fix me. I have realized that I was so attached for so long in my marriage trying to help and fix W that I was truly unhappy.

I'm letting that go. W has to deal with her own monkeys and circus, whether she chooses to or not, is not my problem. I have to protect myself and my kids!


Ralph88
Me 40s W 30s, D5 D3 , M7 T9
2013 B drop 1, EA found
2016 B drop 2, EA/PA?
2/16 Physical Seperation
2/16 I filed for D
4/16 PA Confirmed