Job had asked in the other thread if W is showing signs of confusion...
In my first post on this thread, which was super long and probably a bit intimidating, I listed some of the things she said that showed confusion. Right before BD she was saying she needed time and space, saying she needed to find herself, and that she didn't know what kind of music she liked. After BD saying similar messages, she is seeing a counselor to find herself, not knowing what the future holds.
She told me months before BD that I fit the traits of a nars-assist (intentionally spelled wrong), even though I do not fit the desc., in fact I am the opposite of many of the traits. S11 told me she is describing my traits that supposedly fit that, to him lately. S11 said W said lately that I never made W happy in the M. Definitely rewriting M history!
W is leader of S11's groups (can't say what, again)... I have heard she no longer is putting in the effort, and is even showing up late, leaving the other kids confused what to do.
In the year prior to BD, she had her mother over often to "help" with house work, though W spent her fair share of time on the couch. Now her mother is always there, or she is at her mother's. No strength to function on her own, even though she says that is one of her goals.
I'm not sure about her confusion, but I know I am confused!!
