Thanks, I have read through whole of it, and sometimes through the text it seemed to me that I detached from some behaviors long time ago, and that is the thing that started this whole process in my wife.

Since there is no point in keeping things half done - I will follow on some detachment areas that I have failed so far.


Me38,W36,D9
M 10y, R 14y

10/11/2015 wants to leave
25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans
Jan 2016 started DBing
Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms
Sep 2016 sleeping in same room