Thanks! I still waiver on being strong...it is against my nature to not talk about things. The last time he moved out and I didn't give him the time of day.
It is harder to do at home...I don't want him to leave, don't get me wrong. My D10 and D14 are also always around and I am trying to act as normal as possible for them because they don't know anything yet. D14 has asked me a couple of questions but nothing serious.
I am a worrier...and worry gets me no where. I am projecting scenarios that are not real. I know I need to live 5 minutes at a time...
right now, I am married and nothing has happened to change that. I also know H...he does what he wants. If H really wanted out he would have left. That is when I know being patient and not bringing up R or OW is the healthy thing to do. Why would I aid him in making decision that portrays me as a nag??
Thank God for these boards...I appreciate all of your advice. It makes me feel so not alone.
