We've all made a lot of mistakes, sir. And we will continue to, because we are human and it involves someone who was our world. I'm afraid to say the heartache will remain for a long, long time. It's been over a year since BD and with divorce imminent, it isn't getting any easier. Some days just plain suck.
I am not sure you'd two week time frame of going dark on her is enough - or it may not matter at all. I thought the same thing when my W moved to her new base., but it proved the opposite. Instead of missing me and us, it had the opposite effect on my W. She went "wild." Came back recently with three new tattoos (never wanted any more the 10years we were together) and like a whole new behavior.
The only thing we can do is take care of ourselves. Unfortunately, that is much easier said than done.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
