Thx guys, today i let it all get to me. i'm spinning but at least i can now diagnose myself. i know that i cant control her and maybe i'm making a mountain out of a molehill, but it seems easier to wallow than to stand tall, it definitely is.
I will attempt the positive traits thing to help with my confidence, because this is really about confidence at the end of the day. i'm purchasing a second car, by the end of the week so that i can GAL better. She does not want to do things alone, but she no longer has a choice in that.
As for her moving out, i need the car first, can post her to her dad for a month, but i doubt she's going anywhere! So till then, i'm off to read DETACH thread once more.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
