So woke up this morning thinking about interactions and how some don't make sense. So WW's potential OM, she told me after BD that she was going to have an affair, going to sleep with him, could start a relationship with him and that he was bisexual and the last person he was with was a man.... Now something that has bugged me is that a lot of this was said in anger, and for me it just seemed way too much information. Like if she wanted me to have 'closure' and wanted to hurt me, why not just say it was already happening and she already had.
Also on the day she moved out, a mutual friend helped her. Potential OM was at her place helping her, he said to mutual friend that he was there because he was worried I would hurt WW because when I confronted WW at his place he thinks I tried to punch him, (he hid behind W the whole time) Now, my latest thoughts were, would someone that has pursued a married women and having an affair really expect that nothing would be done to him.... That I should just let them get on with it... I have wondered for awhile, if my W has got attracted to a gay man and only found out when she went to start an affair and then really screwed her head up....
I know it doesn't change my direction, my path and I don't want to waste energy trying to work it out as her thoughts and feelings are the real issue.
Anyways feel free to ignore or comment. I just needed to write it down somewhere.
