When we fall victim to others we do ourselves a disservice, because we dis-empower ourselves to take control of our life. When we are a victim to others, we remain stuck in a place of self pity and sadness. I think it's more productive to accept our reality, feel the sadness of the situation, and give ourselves permission to let go of it and move forward. One step at a time.
So forgiveness is key. We are all human, we all lost it sometimes, but we can control how much we punish ourselves afterwards.
Keep on keeping on. -Blu
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You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.