WAW still angry, moved out, D on the way?

[rich4j]

Sadhub (and CWOL)

You are not alone. I haven't posted in a while on my own thread as I have been also in the divorce loop and battle

I hate the "time will heal" things comments but it is true. And I would highly recommend writing down your feelings (somewhere safe and confidential) so that you don't take them out on the kids. IT IS HARD!

You have been betrayed and then you are getting the raw deal part of divorce (and you too Cwol)

I have a STBX that hasn't worked in 12+ years , had a nanny practially raise our 1 daughter while she did her own thing and now is sticking it to me. And is the one who wants the divorce claiming I am the reason for everything

I went to the therapist that tried to help us in the past and knows the uphill battle I have with my STBX. Go talk to someone...it will help you get the things out of your mind that are so frustrating while also writing them down.

Anger, resentment and the hurt that goes with this is normal. I lost 12 lbs going thru this and looked like I hadn't slept in decades. But it is starting to get better. Good days, bad days...days I cry about my prior life, days I am excited that maybe...just maybe...what alot of people are telling me about how my STBX was this and that...was true and I was blinded by my love for her. It's a phase that is not an easy one so post often and ensure you can put your best game face on with your kids....they are what matter!