I'm still trying. I probably have been a little 'meanish' while acting as if around her, and not being as 'respectful' as I should be. I have been validating way better and detaching way better, and less angry. W is still pushing for counseling, feels like she's trying to friend me through counseling, but I'll try not to mind read. I told her that I didn't really feel that we needed counseling (180), and we can co-parent just fine. She was persistent, and since this is the first she has made any effort, I validated her and said if she made the appointment I would think about it especially since it seems so important to her.

Just trying to keep in mind, believe nothing she says and half of what she does.


Ralph88
Me 40s W 30s, D5 D3 , M7 T9
2013 B drop 1, EA found
2016 B drop 2, EA/PA?
2/16 Physical Seperation
2/16 I filed for D
4/16 PA Confirmed