Hi yes, the funny bit is, when he emailed me yesterday about coming back to live in the house (me in guest house, not really, more like our 'shack') I thought, yeah, I want him to come home, but not TODAY. Now I need more time to get my act together on a couple fronts, and it felt really good to not be the one jumping through hoops to make his life more comfortable right now. I adore him and love him but am definitely using this time to rearrange the balance of power in the pursuer/distancer relationship. Started reading your thread - a lot to take in. wow. this all only started for me less than 3 weeks ago. I can't even imagine the stress of some of the stories I read here. How are you?
