Thank you very much everyone, feeling grateful to have such friends here.You are all right, I need to focus on the present and not the past. H came to see kids a bit later but stayed longer this time again. Usually he would be late but an hour later he'd be gone. At least he is spending more time with kids. Altough I'm not stupid as he didn't see them over the weekend!So he is trying to catch up, I guess. I have been NC with him for a week and tonight he said see you later! Was cheerful and replied see ya! I don't get it, I could here that he was leaving so no need to broadcast it!It feels like he doesn't like me going NC, that he needs to interact with me.
I don't want to be his friend as now the financial side is sorted. I was reading on another post about Sotto's H wouldn't want to settle financial without a D, in my case if I hadn't initiated separation H would never had done it. I know mind reading but now he is with OW, and really has no reason to be amicable with me, so why not file? Why being polite/ civil when he never ever did that with the mother of his first child? And why do I bother writing about him?
