LandC,
I'm sorry for your situation - a D is rough at our age. However, it's entirely possible that your H was just really bent out of shape and is sorry.

However, DR'ing is important to start now, work on just your half. If you can get a coach here, that would be advisable. You've got the gift of time for the moment, make every second count!

Keep checking in!

Me: 58
Her: 59
Kids: 0
Dog: 1
ILYBINILWY: 9/15
D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed)
Verified OM: 1/11/16
Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)