Hi NYGal! I'm so happy to read your new title and all that has been going on with you! I agree that you still need to DB but maybe not as dark. I don't know if you recall but I'm on my second trip to this site and I really do feel that I let H back way to easily last time because I was just so thrilled that he wanted to come back at all. I didn't set boundaries and let him walk all over me - I definitely regret being such a doormat about his return.
That said though, I see lots of positive signs for you and W and I'm so happy for you! Keep calm! You sound like you are not going to just cave in and be all hearts and flowers straight away, which I think is good, take it slowly! Keeping everything crossed for you!
