Hi Dbers - Seeking some advice this week re: since H walked out April 8 have not seen eachother. Only a couple emails. I followed my DB coaches advice re: tone on emails. Both messages from my H this weekend were kind, sweet tone, misses our house and our dog, and has proposed - WAY sooner than I'd imagined, coming back to live in our house and I'll live in our guest house for the moment. He has NO idea how I am doing. Trust me, he would assume I am miserable, hysterical, crying, upset and will start clinging the moment he's within throwing distance of me. Boy, does he have a surprise coming! I am very excited about this idea, but also, hesitant to get too excited as he may still want to break up and that is not what I have in mind at all. He wanted to come back yesterday but I set a boundary and said I'd let him know this week when he could. Any words of wisdom on how to handle this once he is back at our house? This is a man who went from saying he's DONE 3 weeks ago to saying in an email 'I'm glad you want to be friends'. He even called me 'reasonable'. See, I CAN be calm! Thanks for your time and thoughts!
