JGuy, I agree with dream. I think you are disavowing any responsibility in your MR issues. If you were that incompatible before you got married, you would not have gotten married in the first place. That's what all WS's use to justify having affairs, mine included. Also, once the fog/novelty of OW wears off, you will probably find just as many incompatibilities as your W now. The "incompatibilities" come from not being able to fulfill each others' needs and lack of communications, which was my failing as well in my M.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
