The past is the past and the present is a gift, so use it wisely. The future is something we can't know at this time. So for the present, keep the focus on you and continue moving forward. Whether he is a walkaway h or a MLCer, you would do the same thing, i.e., leave him alone, focus on you and your family, protect your finances and live your life to the fullest.
Make a list of the GAL things that you would like to do in the next few months and start working on them. This is a good first step towards moving forward.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
