hey AP, you do this until you don't want to, or a judge tells you: you have to move.

If it is not working change something.

Its your choice and yours only. You want to be with your wife, that is where you are right now. make the best of it..

It her choice too, she is there with you so that is something. If she wants out she know how to do it, she is a big girl. You must be doing something right or she would be long gone, to a lawyer or OM or away from you.

Keep up the good work. No matter how small. Find some positives.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016