Starting to do things right?

[PacLove]

So W came to the house Sunday to work with me on an outdoor project we had been planning for a while. I was really conflicted on this for a while as to let her help vs. doing it on my own. I said I was fine on my own but she really wanted to be there.

In the end I opened it up to her to help, I'm sure part of it was her wanting to see D (but she was mostly away at friends/neigbors) and W was actually very helpful on the project. We didn't talk as much as I had hoped, it was mostly just "logistical" conversation.

I asked her about the upcoming weekend (my Birthday weekend) and what her plans were, she said it was up to me. I shared with her that I'm interested in her joining if it's because she wants to be there as my W, otherwise I'd rather just have a weekend alone with my D. She responded that she's still undecided about what she wants... She also had a different perspective around my GAL activities... she saw me as being selfish wanting to do my own things, I responded that I was just trying to give her the space she needs when it's her nights with D, I'm glad I corrected that perception.

Should be an interesting week. Hit a big age milestone this Weekend.