Don't be available the first evening she suggests or have something cone up and push it an hour or to the next evening.

You have been patient and waited a long time for this. Don't come across as being too eager to meet.You have a good busy life going on. This is not about playing games but more so to be less predictable.

I hope for you that it is for a good reason she is meeting you. But you know to keep a reign on those expectations.

Best wishes and yes do keep us in the loop.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together