JB I actually got that from a DB coach and a IC. I used to be of the school where i didnt know if i believed it, but after the interactions W and I have been having I firmly believe it. When we first got togehter it was based first on physical attraction. I now truly enjoy her as a person and a friend .
Sad the beginnings of this are tough. I know it. Take your blame own it and build yourself on it. Try not to get frustrated when you dont see results from your changes, (learned the hard way on that). I used to get so mad when i would be doing things to be better and she was still closed. I also would get so angry when i was trying to nice her back and she wouldnt even give me a thank you. Wow i was mad.
Funny thing is you will get over all of it and still come out the other side a better person.
And on another note, I know i am not detached like everyone here will tell you to be. Obviously I would not be going through all that i am. But last week i was about to throw myself out there to her almost looking to get rejected because i was tired of the dance. What i have learned though that if this doesnt work I am ok, sure i will love her for quite a while but im ok if i had my time with her and that was it.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
