Anyone have good resources links on how to tell kids about a D? Maybe even pertaining to when both parents don't want the D.

I'm starting to write down what I can about telling them so I'm not blindsided but this is tough. I can use any help possible.

M:13 years
Known her for 30 years!
Me: 40
W: 38
Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7
BD: 02/07/2016
Found EA: 3/22/2016
Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16
Got Papers: 6/15/16