Ha ha, your comment made my day, thanks... I worked out some stress from both of us.

Also, not so unimportant, I got some feedback on areas to work on in after-talk, so I got that going for me.

Me38,W36,D9
M 10y, R 14y

10/11/2015 wants to leave
25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans
Jan 2016 started DBing
Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms
Sep 2016 sleeping in same room