My story job 9140 (4)

[Jb9140]

See? I'm telling you, if she thought there was a chance she might be replace.............

I believe she needs to see that you just aren't as interested in what she does or how she feels about the MR, as you may have been when she first dumped you.

Be careful what you say in front of S7 b/c she is going to throughly pick him for information. In fact, if you have been talking to him about his mother, maybe you should put your focus elsewhere. When she asks him what does daddy say about her, he'll shrug and say you don't really talk about her.

When I tell men this, they immediately think the W will give up and believe he doesn't love her anymore, and his nature to pursue kicks up. But I'm telling you that this way will give you a much greater chance at grabbing her interest in you.........and if you play your cards right........you could bust this D! But you have to hold out and make her work to get you back. Don't take her back too quickly or easily. It is a process she has to go through.

Sorry to bump into your thread Job, but I also have some difficulty with S7's questions. Sandi, do you feel that W's pump the kids for information, I don't ask them anything about her or what she does, says etc but S regularly asks me if I want us all to be back together. If I am happy with the kids being bounced around 2 different places.

I did show a friend that I was talking with a 28 year old and showed him a picture, and that I have met some good looking ladies at the gym. I just told him that they are more pleasant to talk to than W. Him and his wife have contact with my W more than I have with them.

I think it goes back to the mysterious idea. Make her wonder why you don't seem interested anymore.


Day 17 no contact

Well the wife emailed me twice this morning. once was a calendar invite for the kids Wellness checks On Sept 27. Seems a little bit out there of a date to be sending this too me now, but never the less I just accepted it and nothing else.

Then she emailed me to let me know she signed up the boys for after school next fall. didn't feel a response back was necessary. I'm starting to realize for the first time that my wife is very controlling. I guess i never picked up on this because she's very passive aggressive.

Oh well, time to get to the gym and then I have a IC appointment.