We have both given each other our blessings to go and be with whoever makes our heart most happy.
So both you and your W have the solution that being with someone else is the solution to being happy?
Originally Posted By: JGuy
We are all choosing to be loving and let go of what wasn't working in order to make room for something new and way more awesome.
Again, this feels like shifting the blame. Just saying "my old M didnt work, time to start something new" isnt really a great long term solution. Why will this one be better? Because you met this lady in a dream?
Originally Posted By: JGuy
Since I don't want the complications of a rebound R, I am taking it very slow with the OW.
Slow? This OW has already met your child. Speaking like this "we have forever together" doesnt sound slow at all to me.
Originally Posted By: JGuy
I was stunned and could not believe how much love I was witnessing. I hugged them both and we all laughed, in awe at just how much grace we were bearing witness to.
This whole interaction blows my mind. You can call it 'love' and 'grace' if you want to. That seems pretty holier than thou for someone in two relationships.
I dont mean to come off as rude. I will go back and read your old threads. But to see the update 3 weeks ago where you are standing for your marriage to now believing youve met a "forever soulmate" seems to be an incredibly fast. I believe you are holding this new woman up on a pedestal because she isnt W and hasnt hurt you. Im worried that in a few months, you will look back in regret.
To me, youve reinforced your W's decision to seek out OM - why wouldnt she be happy?
