To ignore or not to ignore?

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sr9e2d7,
My thought is if you can get a coach - do it! Even one session would help you with what's going on as far as your WAS wanting to return.

Let's say he does. Then what? Things are the same? What's he going to do to change? What are you going to do?

It's great that you've disconnected and automatically done a lot of what DR is all about by simply living your life and letting him know what his life is like without you. But once back together, something has got to change. How to make a fresh beginning? Is he having a MLF? If so, things might not improve. You'll need to get to the root of his problem. So far you've been doing great, hang in there.