Why is Raven black?

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I still have a few projects, but I don't think I will ask for his help. I will breath a little more easily once I get the "for sale" sign up.
I really love this house. I think H does, too. One of the videos he did see on Saturday was of the construction. It was very obvious how much work we put in as a family. I noticed that yesterday he looked out at our view a lot. There are some major losses here. Not just financial.

While being negative yesterday, he did get some digs in on a daughter. Mentioned that she only visits him when she needs money. He had a rough relationship with her as she was growing up- they are both stubborn and always "right". It seemed they were closer after his relationship with older D started having trouble (when she got engaged, started getting tattoos). His sense of loss and depression must be huge right now.

I wish I could help him more to work through it all. He's either blaming him, me, or ...I don't know. Its all mind reading. This is for him to work through and I need to let him.