I'm getting angry and frustrated. Please chime in and help me through this.
Last night she wanted to talk. Then when it came down to it she said she was too tired. I said that she at least needs to let me know if anything has changed so I can plan accordingly (separate or divorce or what?)
We talked for a bit. I had begun the LRT two weeks ago. She is ticked that I have been distant stating that it proves that I can't change and will always be unavailable to her. I validated and backed off, but she pushed the issue. I then explained that when she said she wanted to S I consciously was giving her the space that she said she wanted. Apparently she didn't want that?!?!?!
She is convinced that I am the source of all problems in our MR. She says she needs someone who is emotionally available, yet she herself is completely emotionally unavailable at this point. Actually has been pretty much our entire relationship. She can't see this and won't hear it from anyone.
Like I said, I'm frustrated becuase I feel stuck. I'm angry because I'm busting my a$$ to improve and my partner is uncooperative.
