Nygal, I think there are aspects of dbing you should stick to. Acting as if, GALing, 180s and monitoring what works.
While you don't need to go dark or even dim now, you could perhaps still keep your hand on the dimmer switch. Match your brightness to W's, and see how she reacts.
I do think that your W needs to work out her issues though but I don't think you need to solve them all at once.
You go girl!
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
