So about goals, before you can make goals as a couple, you need to set goals for yourself. How would you like to improve yourself as a man? How do you want others to perceive what kind of man you are......by the way you carry yourself, in your manly voice and the tone you use. How do they see you address issues. What type of man do they see when you enter a room? What does your body language tell them?
If you need to change or improve any of the above, then make it your private and personal project. Google it, and see what you can find.
I think it would serve you to study about what woman find attractive in men. Sometimes after a rough time in the MR, we just need a refresher course.
Your confidence is higher, which is excellent! I believe you should include researching material on how to maintain that level of confidence, not only for yourself.........but b/c that is usually number one on the attraction list that women find in men. And when I say women....I mean your wife, most of all.
Before setting goals, you have to know what you want. So, instead of looking at your W, the moment, look at yourself and how you can become a more attractive manly man. You may not understand how this would help your relationship, but think of it as building from the foundation up. You are the foundation.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
