Also in my last email exchange with W last week, she made a point of telling me she was 'out of office' , had been since the end of the previous week and would be till this week. I felt at the time she was fishing for me to ask where but I just ignored the comment. Found out from friends that she was ill all week. For someone that said to me she was feeling good a few weeks ago, she has been ill 4 times, that I know of, since the last week she was in the house (about 7 weeks ago). It was always common for her to become ill when very stressed.