Remember not to act as if you are sulled, cold, or angry. You do that by protraying an upbeat attitude. You can still smile, speak, and show a neighbor type of friendliness........but let her lead with the conversations.
She may ask what is wrong and why you are acting this way. Be prepared with an answer.
I am so glad you see how the pursuing is backfiring.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
