Thanks, IP. I needed to hear that. I really have had a downer weekend (except soccer and visiting with a friend). Its been an "I miss old H" weekend. I just can't pull out of it.
After telling me as he was leaving yesterday that he would call last night or this morning to let me know when he would arrive today, he was a no-show with NC by 3:00pm. I really needed his help on some things. So I called. He was less than happy to hear from me, it seemed, but said he would come.
I got a grumpy negative H. No eye contact, very little talk, no jokes, no smile. I can't even say he seemed tired. He just seemed irritated or simmering with a dash of "I give up". I wanted to ask if he was mad at me for something, but... well, duh. We're divorcing! I just cleaned a bit while he mowed and worked on a few things, tried to be light and breezy but it was hard with Mr Negative Nelly. He complained about dandelions and dust. I don't usually see this version of H. No mask whatsoever. Just pure depression? I don't like this guy.
Back to work tomorrow. In every way. I think I can back off on the contact a bit more now that the major projects are done. The house should photograph very well. Then we will wait and see what will happen next.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
