Yes it the right approach. Say its a lot of information and you need time to think it all over. keep it focused on what she says. Let her talk about what she wants and validate. You don't give an opinion about it just validate her feelings on stuff. doing that there is no chance for argument.

Good luck, you have this.

Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016