I know everything you said is true and I know it's what I need to do I just need to make it happen. It is coming up on 3 months now and she has definitely warmed up a lot more in the last month. I think that means more then ever I need to DB and have less contact.
I haven't had a coach yet but I will when work permits me to I just need to work out the logistics of me being in Australia. I am half way through DB book it arrived a couple of days ago but I have been stuck with work still waiting on DR. I will try to do as you say and keep up the DB and stay strong no matter what the outcome.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16
