my wife can't decide (II)

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The only counseling I would recommend would be Michele.

Other than that - I can say without a doubt that counseling probably escalated and sped up my D. It was the wrong thing to do, and would have been easier and more fun to set a $1k bill on fire.

For the moment, I would highly recommend a DB coach if you can swing it, and at the very least follow Sandi's rules. You've GOT to do this before it's too late. I totally understand your trepidation and hesitation. In the heat of the moment it's hard not to. Disconnect, go dark as possible, GAL.