GAL going well. Need help with LRT and 180

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Sandi2:

Thanks for the post - as usual you have slapped some sense into me.

OK so goals may not be practical. I have to stick with my GAL/180/LRT. I do think I've had some success as she is now talking to me about non surface things. I think it also helps that she got her dream job - so her mindset maybe a little different.

I'll give some thought to how I can take my BIG Goals and break them down. I tell you the best thing that has happened to me on this path is get your advice. Your suggestions on Melo's post were game changers. Any and all pointers on how to change the dynamics are very welcome e.g. eye contact.

My confidence has skyrocketed over the past few weeks due to many factors. I'm guessing much of it has to do with the fact that I'm quite happy with the changes I've been making in my life.

If you have some examples of achievable goals in my sit - I'd love to hear them.