Hi Mia, I'm sorry you had a rough weekend with how the kids were feeling. I think the best you can do is be there for them, be there for yourself, work through your feelings and keep moving forward.
I can understand your anger towards your H and I agree with you that in time, choices like his do bring consequences. I believe that will also be the case with my H and his OW.
Did you manage to do some nice things for yourself this weekend?
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus