Yeah, I get that. I was pretty well going dark with her, but she immediately started complaining to me that I wasn't communicating with her enough about the kids. I feel like I'm damned if I do, damned if I don't.


Me: 38 y/o
W: 38 y/o
Together: 10 yrs
Married: 7 yrs
S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15)
WBD: Sep '15
W's EA confirmed Oct'15
W Filed Dec '15
Personal awakening Mar'16