Hi PacLove, I have a similar thing with W and house how she calls it her house too. I understand that is the reality but I just tell her it's her investment but my home, she was the one that decided to leave. I was legally allowed to change the locks as she took a key with her, can you check that out? W has tried to come by but for the moment I have not allowed it. i do think my W also expected to come and go as she pleased, hence the taking of the key.