CRW, you're smothering her and using the kids as an excuse to contact her.
My WW was out with my son since yesterday by a family member. I called her earlier today, immediately stating "can I please speak to my son". No chatting to her; she asked what i did yesterday; i said "nothing".
She said she wants space, give her what she wants and worry about yourself and your life.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.