Please let me know if it goes against DBing if I let my wife know about the ... book or even suggest that she read it.
Do not show material to your W. Just b/c you have found a wealth of information that gives you clear insight to a major issue in the MR......doesn't mean squat to her. She will add it to her list of other things too little too late.
It is much, MUCH better to just stop being the passive nice-guy. Let her see the change in you, instead of you trying to explain it. Otherwise, she will mock whatever change you initiate and say something like, "Is this something that book said to do"?
You may not be able to see what you are doing here, but you are still looking for a positive reaction by showing her the book.
Last edited by Cristy; 04/25/1601:13 PM. Reason: per forum agreement, do not mention other books/authors
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
