I know I have to establish control and create boundaries and I am really trying to figure that out. The No More Mr. Nice Guy book is giving me a lot to think about and work on.
I HATE that she has made a unilateral decision about our M without consulting me. That is the part where I feel she has all the control. We have always made big decisions together, and now she is making the ultimate M decision without me. That isn't what we promised each other we would do.
