Also my ex also claims he was not in a relationship with OW until after we broke up. The instant the bomb dropped I asked if he was having a relationship with her which of course he denied - but after bomb he was free to start that relationship.

They live in denial. It is a mental state. The best you can do is stay busy with your life and your hobbies. You are so blessed to have healthy children.

----
M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13