Still trying to figure out how to best live during this limbo period.

Cordial didn't really work for me. It actually made me more focused on the situation, because I am such a naturally chatty person that I have to think all. the. time. about not initiating conversation.

Right now I'm trying to interact normally and focus my mental energies on the kids and GAL. No more relationship talks!

The kids and I went out for pizza and a play on Friday. Yesterday was errands mostly. Today is church and maybe a stroll in the woods on a new trail I've been meaning to check out.

H did hire someone to edit his book.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16