14 days of sheer hell continues

[DDJ]

That makes sense dream. It kind of validates her selfishness, if i'm also selfish. I am staying strong, but need to muster up the courage to face this demon, which is really this forum. I need to not forget why and where i'm going.

Also, linking to what Sandi says about the wandering that must truly be in the past. That waywardness includes stubbornness and selfishness. The journey that we are on is to also lose our own stubbornness and selfishness.

We are stubborn in that we can't see our lives without our WW/WHs and we're selfish because we are not willing to let them go. If we can do both, then like Vanilla stated so eloquently, we will be two steps ahead of them, and might not want them back - but that's also ok!