Hi LandC! I'm just catching up on your posts today and am sorry for my late reply.

You can read all of my gory details over on my threads, so I won't trouble you with the details. No, my H shows no signs of wanting to recooncile. In fact, the last time I saw him, he said that working on our marriage would feel like 'giving up on himself." How's that for self-involvement?

I just wanted to let you know that I'm reading. Be sure to go out and read other people's threads and post on them! By reaching out, you start to establish ties to others in the group. This site is a web of support if you weave yourself into it.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16